Reclaiming Brotherhood

Reclaiming Brotherhood

ISTP – Inspired Group for Men

Do you wish it was easier to make or maintain meaningful connections with others?

Do you want to deepen the strength and intimacy of your relationships?

Do you want more purpose or direction in your life as a son/father/husband?

Are you wanting to handle transitions in your life more confidently and capably?

Reclaiming Brotherhood is a gathering space for dialogue about men’s roles, experiences, and expectations that we carry alone in silence. This circle is for men to explore individual and collective challenges that separate us from our emotions, needs, identity, and a sense of belonging. 

Through guided Breathwork, meditation, ceremony, authentic conversation, and reflective sharing, we will dive into parts of us that have been silenced or forgotten in order to fit a particular standard and role.

FACILITATORS & CO-CREATORS

Daniel Martinez, RCC, C- ISTPTM

New Westminister, British Columbia

Arshdeep Sandhu, RSW

Toronto, Ontario

Founder & Creator

SETTING OUR INTENTIONS

  • Identify thoughts and behaviours that have continued to isolate us  
  • Recognize internalized patterns & expectations of masculinity.
  • Awareness of the impact of our upbringings on core beliefs and relationships with self &  others 
  • Masculinity, reconciliation & mentorship  
  • Reclaim parts of yourself that have been unseen, unheard, unrecognized and invalidated.

OFFERING 2 LOCATIONS

LOCATION 1 : Body Mind Soul Healing Centre, New Westminster, BC

DATE: Saturday November 15th, 22th, 29th, & December 6th.

TIME: 3:30 pm – 5:30 pm

COST: $100/per circle

LOCATION 2: Kula Yoga Studio, Toronto, ON

DATE: February 2026 TBD

TIME: TBD

COST: $100/per circle

Did you know?

More men are lacking meaningful, strong and deep connections with peers that greatly impact their social network and it decreases up to 50% as we age

 

Historically and culturally, men have been raised differently than women and taught not to express feelings and emotions. Some feel embarrassed, weak, insufficient or broken when they approach someone for emotional support and if they do, they often face stigma. Men have been masters of stoicism, restrictive emotional expression and self-reliance, which can make them feel isolated or alienated.

Did you know?

In Canada, 75% of all suicides are males and worldwide men are 3x more likely to die by suicide

Male loneliness and isolation has been found to have negative consequences: increase anxiety and depression, poor social skills, negative self-esteem, etc. The experiencing of constant negative emotions and stigma can push men to cope in unhealthy ways: drugs, alcohol, self-harm, over/undereating, violent behaviours, overwork, sexual behaviour, use of porn and currently use of AI.

In the long run, these things can negatively affect how we relate and connect with others. These may be some of the reasons why modern men may be struggling: unhealthy coping strategies, lack of social and emotional support, stigma and an absence of positive male figures.

MEN'S RITE OF PASSAGE

During the transition from child to man, without a positive male influence or guidance, men go through a separation from the mother and everything labelled as feminine. This can result in emotional maladjustment, an increase in depression and violence towards self and others.

To become part of the group or become a man, youths can be forced into acts of false bravado and violence to prove they fit. Society pressures boys from a young age to act tough and to hide vulnerabilities, to solve problems independently.

THE BOY CODE
Leads to loss of inner connection, emotions of care and empathy are buried and the only pathway to this is through anger. Separation from the feminine (nurturing, empathy, bonding emotionally)
"BOYS WILL BE BOYS”
A saying that enables and perpetuates that violence and dominance as “necessary” for the development of masculinity.

Rooted in trust, respect and openness, you‘re invited to share experiences and reflections to reconnect with self with compassion, clarity and purpose.

Let’s build new connections and friendships with people whom you can count on.

Together, let’s change the narrative that masculinity is toxic and become a healthy and positive figure for other men and future generations.